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By: Jason Lee Updated for 2022

Undoubtedly the most well-known and most famous online dating app in the world is eHarmony. But just because it has boat loads of popularity, does that mean it’s the top option for singles looking for serious relationships? Maybe…but maybe not.

If you’re looking to answer this question or whether or not eHarmony is worth it or you want to see what other users are saying, then you’re right where you need to be. Below, we’ve compiled all the results from our eHarmony reviews to help you decide if this is the right app for you or not.

By the end of our extensive eHarmony reviews, you’re going to have your answer on where they stack up against the rest. The site boasts about having some of the best matchmaking success out there and the most marriages. But can they walk the walk?

eHarmony – The Bottom Line Up Front

As a spoiler, you can see from our rankings and ratings below that eHarmony not only walks the walk, but they dance the dance, and do any other tricks you could ever want an online dating site to do. The site is going to be a big win for singles looking for serious and committed relationships. If you’re looking for casual dating, though, eHarmony is not going to be a great fit at all for you.

• Biggest Pro – An unmatched track record of success with over 2 million + finding love (someone every 14 minutes)
• Biggest Drawback – More expensive than some other online dating sites (though this does help to cut down on people looking to play games and not take the process seriously)

If you’d like to dive into eHarmony and check out things yourself (which we highly encourage), we’ve included a free trial link below that you can use to start digging around. Feel free to click now, or take a minute to read through some of our expert’s opinions from their eHarmony reviews first and then check things out. You’re in the driver’s seat today : )

Overall eHarmony Rating

9.8/10.0

Pros and Cons of the eHarmony Dating App

Through this link, you’ll automatically be set up with a free trial which includes the ability to participate in their free communication weekends which we’ll outline more in depth in the features section below. Additionally, sign up discounts and promos are offered privately only to members who have signed up for a free trial account.

eHarmony Review – Table of Contents

If you’d prefer to watch the review, we’ve got that for you here!

Fast Facts From Our eHarmony Reviews

• Site Name: eHarmony (eharmony.com)
• Paid or Free: Paid site with a limited free trial, occasional free communication weekends
• Average Sign Up Time: 20-30 minutes
• Paid Membership Pricing: Plans starting as low as $35.90 per month
• Unique eHarmony Facts and Figures:
  • Over 2.3 million messages sent between singles every week
  • Membership breakdown is 51% men and 49% women
  • More than 2 million + singles have found love on eHarmony
  • New video dating features added and included in all paid plans

The Editor’s Reviews

“I’ve become pretty intimately acquainted with eHarmony throughout this whole process. Overall, my eHarmony review revealed a dating site that might cost a few bucks extra, but in return you get results. If I had to do it all over again, eHarmony would be my first stop for a dating app for relationships and marriage.”

– Jason Lee, Chief Editor of Best Online Dating

“There’s something to be said about doing something right the first time. My eHarmony review showed a dating website that genuinely works to help out people looking for serious relationships. If you don’t want to spend the next several years looking for love, a quality dating site like eHarmony may really be able to help.”

– Linda Morris, Associate Reviews Editor

“Ladies, if you’re looking for a serious relationship, there’s no reason to look much further. The structured approach I saw during my eHarmony review is perfect to help you find Mr. Right. If you’re only looking for Mr. Right Now, though, this isn’t the site for you. “

– Christina Anne, Contributing Writer

The Sign Up Process (Average 20-30 minutes)

When signing up for eHarmony, it becomes clear VERY quickly that they take this process seriously. Not so seriously that it zaps all the fun, but in a way that gives you that nervous excitement because you’re pretty sure they’re going to give you a great shot at meeting that special someone.

When you first go to create an account, you can choose to create one manually with your email, log-in through Facebook, or log in with your Apple account if you’re using the eHarmony app. For those choosing to use Facebook, good news, they never post anything to your Facebook wall or notify your friends or anything like that.

One thing that you may want to look at if you use the Facebook option is what information you want to provide to eHarmony. A bunch of stuff will be auto-selected including things like relationship status, your likes, your timeline posts…Our guess is that this is to help fill out your profile quicker, but it does seem like a lot.

What you can do is deselect everything and only give them the required information which is just your name, profile picture, and any other public info that you have. It’s up to you, but this is what we chose to do because we wanted to fill out everything ourselves. Who knows what crazy stuff we have on our Facebook profile we forgot about? If you’d like to save time with the sign-up process though, by all means let them do what they do best and leave it all checked.

Once you get your initial account created, you’ll go right into the compatibility quiz. Keep reading for details on how that process looks.

eHarmony Compatibility Quiz

We’re not going to post the compatibility quiz questions here because we think it might mess up the process and we want you to get the most out of the eHarmony app experience. We can give you the details about how it works, though.

eHarmony will ask you a series of questions about you, how you feel about yourself, what you’re looking for in a partner, and a whole lot more. They even have some odd questions that have you look at a bunch of pictures and decide which one you like the most. Seems strange, but their process has incredible results, so we’re game.

It’s not incredibly challenging, though, it will make you think a little about who you are and what sort of matches you are looking for. We highly recommend taking the eHarmony compatibility quiz seriously and really putting some time into your answers.

eHarmony boasts that this is the secret to all of their success and if you’re someone who has been struggling to find that special someone, why not give them a chance to work their magic?

There are six sections to the compatibility quiz and it’s probably going to take you at least 15-20 minutes to fill out if not longer if you really want to take your time on it.

The compatibility quiz takes the bulk of the sign-up time. Again, this should be a positive for you. Out of all the reviews we’ve done, eHarmony’s clear goal of matching up compatible matches is the most evident during the sign-up process. The compatibility questions are all done on a scale of how much something applies to you. Here’s what a few sample question looks like:

Once you get done filling out your compatibility quiz, the experts and the algorithms at eHarmony will go to work. Don’t worry if you can’t finish your sign-up all in one sitting. eHarmony will save everything for you if you need to come back at a later date. You’ll know you’re done when you see this magical screen.

You will be asked to upload a picture to your eHarmony profile either from your computer or from your Facebook account. If you don’t feel like doing this right away, though, you are able to skip this step temporarily.

Are there good, quality matches on eHarmony?

The most important part of any reviews we do of an online dating site is whether or not there are quality matches for you to choose from. If eHarmony didn’t have any members or they were of garbage quality, what’s the point, right?

Well, as you may have already guessed, thanks to eHarmony’s well calculated sign-up process and their aggressive marketing campaigns, the singles available on the site were plentiful and very high quality.

According to eHarmony’s website, millions of people from all walks of life (ages, ethnicities, nationalities, and political and religious beliefs) have used their compatibility system and have successfully found long-term relationships. Specifically, eHarmony markets to and is available in the United States, Canada, Australia, and the United Kingdom.

As we commonly like to do, here’s the bottom line up front. eHarmony’s claim that they have a lot of high-quality members is true.

Matches are presented to you in a grid format on your member dashboard. Above, you’ll see what we saw after we got our account created.

If you notice that all the pictures are blurred, this is because you can only see your matches and their profiles before upgrading to a paid account. All photos will be blurred (which we do on all of our reviews anyways, so thanks for the help eHarmony).

eHarmony App Member Quality Testing

We tested out the matches in a lot of different cities (only in the United States) including big cities and small cities and also with a lot of different parameters. What we found was plentiful. The number of singles on eHarmony is massive, and they all were fully filled out real profiles.

Unlike some online dating sites, eHarmony does a killer job of clearing out any spam or fake profiles that may have somehow slipped through the cracks. Although, we’re not really sure how that could ever happen with their sign-up process.

We actually went back with our test review profile to update our review, and our account had been deleted from the site for not being a real account. While this made a little additional work for us, we were happy to see that eHarmony was quick to review and remove an account that was not active on the site and not a “real” account.

eHarmony does this to protect its existing members from people who might not be completely dedicated to the process or at least haven’t taken that next step yet. Yes, that means people who haven’t paid for an upgraded membership. You are able to see their full profile, though, which allows you to get to know the potential matches eHarmony has found for you.

eHarmony Profiles

Here’s what the profile looks like BEFORE you upgrade to a paid account. Notice that you can see all the information about your match except for their photos. You’ll notice that we included two pictures here. Why? We wanted to show you how the eHarmony app profiles have adapted over the years. The photo on the left is an eHarmony profile from a few years ago. The screenshot on the right (or below if you’re on mobile) is what the profiles look like in 2022.

Also, in case you’re curious, we blurred the personally identifiable information but you’ll be able to see that information when you create your eHarmony app account.

Profile sections include:

• Introduction – This is a text area where singles can share information about who they are and what they’re looking for.
• About Me – This is a collection of short-answer questions listed below
  • I have a passion for…
  • Things I am thankful for
  • If I need advice, I’m calling…
  • The one thing that will always cheer me up…
  • The first thing people notice about me…
  • My most unforgettable travel story…
  • If I am in a bad mood…
  • An odd habit of mine…
• Lifestyle – These are hobbies and interests that you can pre-select from a list
• Top of the page: Name, Age, Occupation, Number of Photos, and Last Login
• “Fact file”
  • City of residence
  • Occupation
  • Body type and height
  • Ethnicity
  • Degree and University
  • Languages spoken
  • Smoking habits
  • Drinking habits
  • Workout habits
  • Marital status
  • Children
  • Religion
• Entertainment
  • Favorite TV shows and movies
  • Music likes
  • Favorite books

The Bottom Line on the Quality of Singles on the eHarmony App

The bottom line result of our eHarmony reviews is the site is packed full of high-quality singles who are serious about the online dating process. We did find that most everyone on the site is looking for something serious (marriage eventually) so this is not going to be a great site for anyone who is looking for a quick fling or something super casual. If you’re looking to find someone who could develop into a partner for life, eHarmony is going to be great for you.

Regarding ages of singles, we saw people all over the spectrum. It did look like the mid to late 20s, 30s, 40s, and early 50s were the most prevalent age groups, but there were quite a few singles in the early 20’s bracket and on the “more life experience” side of the bracket as well.

Hands down one of the easiest five-star ratings we’ve ever given an online dating site.

Is eHarmony a Christian dating site?

Questions we hear a lot are whether eHarmony is for Christians or if eHarmony is a Christian dating site? Let’s answer both questions starting with the second one. No, eHarmony is not a Christian dating site. However, so many people believe that it is due to the more serious nature of the app’s approach. What this results in is eHarmony attracts a lot of single Christians even though it’s not a faith-focused dating app.

So, no eHarmony is not a dedicated Christian dating app, but it’s a great site for Christian singles. You will find people of other faiths (or who aren’t religious on the site), but you’ll also find plenty of single men and women looking for religious-focused dating. And the site does come with some great features that will help you to quickly sort through your matches to find people who fit what you’re looking for.

For those of you interested in a 100% faith-focused app, you can always check out our list of the top Christian dating apps.

How easy is the site to use?

If there is something that eharmony spent more money on than marketing, it has to be their designers and coders. Their web and app interfaces are some of the smoothest and easiest to use that we’ve seen.

Finding what you’re looking for is a cinch and certainly does not require a computer science degree to figure out. It’s clear they designed eHarmony for everyone to use without pulling their hair out or bashing the computer against the wall.

Your member area has only four different links across the top of the page for you to choose from:

• Matches
• Messages
• A drop-down menu that has the following links and information:
  • Edit Profile
  • Personality Profile
  • Data and Settings

Under the matches tab, you’ll see all of the matches that eHarmony currently has for you. They’re laid out simply in a grid style format with features you can sort with across the top. You’ll also be able to update your match preferences from this screen in case what you’re looking for in a match has changed.

You’ll also be able to look at your favorites, those who have favorite you, and your mutual matches. There is also a section known as “What If” that we will cover in full in the features section of this review below.

Under the messages tab, you’ll find…your messages! We bet you didn’t see that one coming. The layout of the message area is clean and looks similar to how things look on Facebook messenger only a lot cleaner. Again, it’s clear that eHarmony really cares about the user experience down to the last little detail.

The bottom line is that you’re going to have no problems figuring out how to use the basic interface of eHarmony.

eHarmony Guided Communication

One thing that eHarmony really tries to do is make the dating process as easy as possible. One way in which they do this is through their guided communication process. The eHarmony guided communication process is a four-step process for you to get to know potential matches in a “controlled method.” While that might not sound so romantic, it helps you to ease into the process and aims to help the relationship and feeling out process happen much easier.

One thing that we do want to point out before we explain how the process works is that once you are a paying member, you can skip the guided communication process altogether and go straight to sending messages like you would on a traditional dating site.

This is called “Skip to eH Mail” by the site. eHarmony does say in their blog that people tend to make mistakes in the dating process by being too forward or moving too quickly when they skip straight to the eH mail. It’s for this reason that they as well as us suggest that you use the guided communication process and at least give it a chance to work before you go skipping it.

Also, for those of you that are worried about people being able to message you directly without using the process, you have to accept their message and ability to skip the process. If you choose that you only want to go through the guided communication process, your potential match is going to have to respect your wishes and either go through the process or chat with someone else. If they don’t want to go through the process and be patient for you, they probably aren’t the right person for you anyways.

For those of you that do want to use the guided communication process, here’s what it looks like. The four steps are:

Step 1 Quick Questions

The quick questions are the first step in the guided communication process. What you do is choose from a set of pre-written questions eHarmony has to developed and send those to your potential match. These questions are targeted at asking some of the tougher dating questions as well as some of the more interesting ones in a more “welcoming manner.”

Your potential match is then able to respond by choosing from a set of pre-written responses. Basically, it allows you to start to get to know each other without having to worry about coming up with what to say or how to ask the questions that you really want to ask a match.

The quick question process is free to use without a paid account, so you can start the process prior to deciding if you want to upgrade or not. The one perk that you will get if you do upgrade your account is that you don’t have to use the pre-programmed answers to the questions if you don’t want to.

After they answer your questions (or you answer theirs), eHarmony then lets you respond with your own set of questions. You can ask as many or as few questions as you would like. The process is pretty quick so it’s not really a long drawn out step as long as the person you are messaging with logs on to respond.

We have heard that eHarmony members are typically much more responsive and serious about the relationship process than members of some other comparable sites.

Step 2 Makes or Breaks

Makes or breaks was one of our favorite parts of the guided communication process as well as the entire eHarmony review. It’s a really cool way for two potential matches to air out what is extremely important for them and what is a deal breaker. According to eHarmony, almost every successful couple that came from the site mentioned being brutally honest during the make or breaks section of the process.

Your “Makes” are the things that are a must have for you in a partner. These are the things that you just can’t live with out and what “makes” a partner a great choice for you. Your “Breaks” are the more important deal breakers. These are the things that you refuse to tolerate in a partner. While it may stink to see qualities that you have on this list, it will save you a lot of time by not pursuing someone who isn’t okay with a particular flaw or personality trait that you might have.

Step 3 Digging Deeper

The Digging Deeper section of the eHarmony guided communication process is like the Quick Questions section but on steroids. In this step of the process, you can choose to use pre-programmed questions again or you can write your own. These questions are going to go a lot deeper than the initial Quick Questions and really help you to start to get to know your potential match.

Responses are no longer pre-written ones that you can choose from. You’re now able to respond with your own words and really let the other person get to know you. eHarmony recommends answers here in the 5-6 sentence range to really show who you are.

We completely agree with them and also would advise that you take some time on your answers and don’t just try and fly through them. If you’re really serious about finding the love of your life, you can take a few extra minutes to answer the questions that they have deemed are important to them.

Step 4 eHarmony Mail

eHarmony mail is the plain ole’ messaging that you get with every other online dating site. This is where you are fully on your own, the training wheels are off, and you are no longer being guided.

By this point, you’ll have a pretty good idea of who the person is that you’re talking to so conversation should hopefully flow easily. If it doesn’t, you might not be compatible with that person which is completely okay. Remember, you can skip straight to this step, but neither eHarmony or us recommend that.

Are there any great features?

eHarmony has a lot of great, yet simple, features to help make your online dating experience that much more successful. If you’re someone who loves a million different features, bells, and whistles to keep you busy, you aren’t going to like eHarmony.

During our eHarmony reviews, we found that they care about one thing – helping you find love. This means that they didn’t go overboard with a ton of unnecessary features that just entertain and don’t help to achieve your goal. Let’s take a look at a few of these features.

The Search Feature?

You may notice when you get onto eHarmony that they don’t have a traditional search feature. Nothing like starting the list of features with a feature they don’t have, right? Instead what they do is present matches to you that they think are compatible.

eHarmony really likes to be in the driver’s seat when it comes to helping you pick your matches. Imagine them like your good friend who always wants to play matchmaker, except they are professionals and are really, really good at it. You don’t produce millions of successful long-term relationships just by dumb luck.

You are able to look outside of the matches eHarmony presents you and you are able to search through your matches as well as the matches outside of your preferences. In a sense, this is a search function, but it’s definitely not what you are traditionally used to and not the method they seem to prefer for you to use.

You are also able to update your match preferences which will change who shows up in your match feed. We don’t really recommend doing this just to see more people. Trust the system and explore the matches they give you.

Why does eHarmony have no real search feature? They do this because they want you to trust in their systems and the processes they’ve put in place. Let’s be honest for a minute…if you’re here, you’re obviously in need of some help, and eHarmony wants to make sure that you’re taking it. They have such a high success rate with pairing up perfectly compatible people that we’re totally ok with the fact that they choose to do the searching for you.

What If?

Another fun feature we liked during our eHarmony review is the What If? feature. The What If? feature is their swipe type matching system. It’s a system that allows you to jump a bit more into the driver’s seat of finding your match.

They’ll present you with up to 30 different matches a day with a picture and some basic information about the person. You’ll swipe left or right depending on whether you are interested or not.

If you choose someone you like, eHarmony will work to get you matched up with them. It’s a fun system that allows you to see a lot of different faces and potentially see someone special that you might have missed or is not popping up in your match feed.

For those of you that are looking to see a lot more matches every day, this is the feature you’re looking for. It’s like Tinder, but with a lot classier group of people. No offense Tinder users…what we meant to say is a group that is more serious about relationships and not just having a good time.

Free Communication Weekends

For those of you that aren’t quite ready to join eHarmony, they have free communication weekends fairly regularly that will let you use a lot of the features for free. What we recommend is that even if you aren’t planning on joining the site, you should create an account just so you can be ready for one of these weekends.

During the weekend, any member of the site is free to flirt, send questions, or write messages/respond to other singles.

There are a few features that you won’t get access to without upgrading, though. These are the ability to see who visited your profile, the What If? function, and the ability to see other member’s photos. The last one is a bummer, but you’ll still be able to interact and start getting to know other members and see if it’s worth it for you to upgrade and join the site.

If you’d like to learn more or get signed up for the next free communication weekend at eHarmony, we’ve put together a full guide with all of the important information you need to take advantage and make sure you don’t miss out on this awesome feature.

eHarmony’s Compatibility Tab

One of the neatest sections of the member profile area we found during our eHarmony review is the compatibility tab. eHarmony matches you with other members based on 15 different traits. If you click to the compatibility tab of a member’s profile, it will tell you exactly what percent they think you match based on those traits.

If you’re looking for someone that matches you strongly in some characteristics, you’re going to like playing around with this tab. Also, if you are a data nerd you’ll love it to.

Here are the 15 characteristics that you’ll see when you click to this section along with the definition eHarmony provides for each

• Accommodation
  • The drive to understand, respect and accommodate differences of opinion.
• Affection
  • Your tendency to feel and show your love with partners.
• Agreeableness
  • Being kind, sympathetic, cooperative, warm and considerate.
• Altruism
  • How important it is for you to help others.
• Athleticism
  • Being energetic, athletic and keeping physically fit.
• Conscientiousness
  • Being diligent and organized as opposed to easy-going and disorderly.
• Emotional Intimacy
  • Feeling comfortable sharing personal thoughts and feelings with others.
• Exclusivity
  • How important you feel it is to only have one partner at a time.
• Extraversion
  • Enjoying large groups of people and being the center of attention.
• Intellect
  • How clever and intelligent you think you are.
• Physical Intimacy
  • The level of importance placed on the physical aspect of a relationship.
• Relationship Values
  • The importance you place on having a happy, healthy relationship.
• Religious Values
  • How important religion and religious values are in your daily life.
• Romance
  • How important romance and closeness are to you in a relationship.
• Social Values
  • The importance you place in having friends.

Tell me about the customer support.

eHarmony has an extensive FAQ section that can be located from the bottom footer of the website. From our review, they look to have answers to almost any common question we could think of. What we did take a while to find was how to contact them with any other questions not covered.

If you click on a question and scroll to the bottom, you’ll find an email and phone support option. We would have liked to see these more prominently posted somewhere, but it’s clear they are trying to get people to use the FAQ support first. So, if you need help, go the FAQ section, click on a question and scroll to the bottom. You’ll see the link for email support.

Oh, and if you want the phone number, we got you 🙂

• Phone: 844-544-3173
• 8 A.M. to 5 P.M. PT, Monday – Saturday

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